Embracing the Stranger: Lessons in Faith and Community | EP.05
Show Notes for | Episode 05: To Be Do From the Belonging Exchange
Episode Title: To Be Do From the Belonging Exchange
Host: Philip Amerson
Guest: Jonathan Massimi (he/him), Anglican Priest from Kitchener, Ontario
In this thought-provoking episode of To Be and Do, host Philip Amerson engages in a deep and reflective conversation with Jonathan Massimi about linking faith with work, the importance of recognizing the stranger, and the complexities of offering help. Their dialogue touches on themes of belonging, mutual relationships, and the unintended consequences of well-meaning actions. Below are three key takeaways from their enriching discussion:
1. The Importance of Knowing the Stranger:
One of the core insights shared by Jonathan centers on the notion of "stranger danger" instilled in children from a very young age. This societal norm often encourages fear and avoidance of the unknown. Jonathan challenges this framework by highlighting the Christian tradition, which teaches that the stranger could be a divine messenger. The conversation underscores the potential richness and new perspectives that can emerge from interacting with those we consider "different." In practice, this means moving beyond stereotypes and fostering genuine relationships with people from diverse backgrounds.
2. Reciprocity Over Charity:
Philip and Jonathan delve into the problematic nature of one-sided charitable actions, which can create dependency and reinforce power imbalances. They critically examine common church activities, like distributing backpacks filled with school supplies, that often fail to establish real relationships. Jonathan argues for a reciprocal model of engagement where giving and receiving are mutual acts. He stresses the importance of truly knowing the names, stories, and needs of individuals rather than merely addressing perceived problems through unilateral aid.
3. Building a Sense of Belonging:
The discussion introduces the concept of a "belonging Apgar" to assess community integration. True belonging, according to Jonathan, involves more than just physical presence; it requires that individuals know each other’s names, exchange gifts, and achieve a recognized social standing where they are missed when absent. This framework can be used by churches and organizations to evaluate and improve their engagement strategies, ensuring that actions taken foster a genuine sense of community and connection rather than just providing temporary solutions.
Join us for an episode filled with profound insights and practical wisdom, challenging listeners to rethink how they interact with and support their communities deeply and meaningfully.
Contact Information:
To connect with Jonathan Massimi for consultations or conversations, please visit
- Jonathan Massimi
- hello@civicbloom.ca
- civicbloom.ca
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