Exploring Bubba Identity: Bishop Ken Carder on Connection to Roots and God's Love

In the recent episode of "To Be and Do," host Philip Amerson delves into a riveting conversation with Bishop Ken Carder, uncovering the profound lessons of identity, belonging, and love. The episode starts on an intriguing note—with the tale of being called "Bubba" by Will Campbell, a remark surprisingly embraced by Bishop Carder.

Bishop Carder recounts the story of his friend, Will Campbell, a noteworthy figure who was not only a gadfly and activist but also known for his deep work in civil rights. Campbell, known for bridging divisions and challenging norms, used "Bubba" as an acknowledgment of Bishop Carder's grounded connection to his roots. For Carder, being referred to in such a colloquial, affectionate way was the highest compliment he could receive, signifying his unbroken bond with the working class and the community that shaped him.

Throughout this episode, I found several key takeaways that resonated deeply:

1. Authentic Identity Matters: Campbell's use of "Bubba" was more than a nickname—it was a recognition of Bishop Carder’s authentic self and his ties to the working class. In an era striving towards authenticity, this story underscores the importance of staying true to one's roots and heritage. Embracing who we truly are can foster genuine connections and bring a sense of pride and belonging.

2. Intersection of Faith and Action: Bishop Carder, through his stories of Campbell and his own life experiences, highlights the crucial intersection of faith and action. Christianity, he suggests, is not just about believing; it is about being and doing. This idea is further explored through Bishop Carder’s reflections on his life with his wife Linda, where presence and being outweigh conventional intellectual activities. It's a call to embody love in our everyday actions and interactions.

3. Power of Love and Belonging: Perhaps the most poignant part of the discussion is when Bishop Carder reflects on his wife Linda’s journey with dementia. Even as Linda lost her memories, her essence remained, teaching profound lessons in love and belonging. This narrative illustrates a beautiful truth: that love is a powerful, binding force, rooted in the essence of our being rather than actions or cognitive abilities.

In today's society, where identity and belonging are continually explored and redefined, this episode offers a refreshing perspective through Bishop Carder’s journey. It challenges us to look beyond societal designations and uncover the layers of human connection through authenticity, action, and love. For those listening, it’s a call to embrace our own "Bubba" moments—those instances where we are recognized and appreciated for our true selves.

Philip Amerson concludes by encouraging listeners to further explore Bishop Carder’s insights by diving into his books. They not only broaden understanding but promise to enrich one’s spiritual and emotional journey. As we anticipate future conversations with Bishop Carder on institutions and community life, this episode leaves us with much to ponder and integrate into our lives.

Catch the full discussion on "To Be and Do" and reflect on what it means to truly belong and to live a life filled with being, believing, and doing.